14 August 2019

Anonymous Messaging Apps: Who’s asking?

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A number of websites and apps, such as Sarahah and Tellonym, let users ask questions, leave comments and have conversations anonymously. Here’s what you need to know.

An app called Sarahah was banned from Google and Apple app stores in 2018 due to accusations that it was facilitating bullying, though it has since been re-added to the Google Play store. Other popular anonymous messaging apps and websites include, Curious Cat, Tellonym, and Flizle. 

Know the risks with anonymous messaging apps: 

  • Many of these apps do not require users to register to submit comments.
  • Most of these platforms require users to be 18 or over, but some allow users as young as 13 to sign up, while others have no age verification process, meaning younger people could register and use the platform. 
  • Users may behave differently when they are anonymous, which could result in bullying and an exposure to inappropriate comments. 
  • Anonymous chat apps may only reveal information about who sent an anonymous message if required to do so by law enforcement.

Tellonym and sharing links across social media: 

There is a trend on Instagram and Twitter for users of anonymous messaging apps to share a link to their Tellonym or Sarahah profile which allows people to submit anonymous messages and questions. Users should be aware that if they share their Tellonym or Sarahah link on their bio on Instagram, anybody can submit comments as all bios are public, even if their account is set to private. 

Top tips:

  • Young people should be aware of these risks before using these platforms, and, if they are posting anonymously, they should consider the impact of sending and receiving unkind messages. 
  • Users sending abusive or inappropriate comments can be blocked even if they are anonymous, although young people should be aware that this may be bypassed by using another device. 
  • If a young person is receiving bullying or inappropriate messages on one of these platforms, they should block the user and make a report to the platform. 

Follow our TEAM tips to help keep your child safe online when playing online games:

Talk to your child regularly about what they’re doing online and how to stay safe. Let them know they can come to you or another trusted adult if they’re feeling worried or upset by anything they have seen. You can use our conversation starters to support you when starting these conversations.

Explore your child’s online activities together. Understand why they like playing certain games and make sure they know what they can do to keep themselves safe.

Agree your own rules as a family when using sites, apps and games. You can use our family agreement template to help you get started.

Manage your technology and use the settings available to keep your child safe. Use Net Aware reviews to help you explore parental controls and safety settings.