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Sitting down with your child and exploring their favourite app or game is a great way for you to learn more about what they like to do online.

You can ask them why they like to use an app or play certain games, as well as who they’re talking to and what sorts of things they’re sharing.

You can also read our Net Aware reviews for tips on how to keep kids safe on popular apps, sites and games.

Remind them that they shouldn’t share private things, such as:

• personal information, like names, phone numbers, links to other social media accounts or their school
• other people's personal information
• links to join private group chats
• photos of themselves
• photos of their body, such as sexual photos or videos.

Remind them that if someone starts asking them other questions or suggests they speak using another messaging platform they should come and tell you.

Instagram has several different ways you can create and share content with your followers:

Stories

Instagram stories let you share images and video clips to your profile in a slideshow format. They automatically disappear after 24 hours.

People can only comment or react to a story privately through direct message.

If you have a public account stories can be watched by anyone who goes onto your profile.

Reels
Instagram Reels lets you record and add effects or music to short 15 second video clips to share with your close friends and followers, a bit like TikTok.

You can access the feature directly through the Instagram app by swiping left on the homepage and selecting ‘Reels’. Once you’ve added a video to Instagram it will appear on your profile under ‘Reels’.

You can also explore and watch other people’s Reels through Instagram’s ‘Explore’ page.

The app also has a livestreaming function where you can ‘go live’ and speak directly to your followers.

It’s easy to change your profile to private on Instagram. This means only people you’ve approved will be able to see what you post on your grid and stories.

Instagram has guidance on how to change privacy settings.

You can explore these with your child and decide which ones are appropriate for you and your family.

Your child might see something upsetting or negative on Instagram. If this happens, they might want to report, block or restrict content or another user. Explore these features together to make sure you're both confident about when and how to use them. 

Reporting

Instagram has specific guidance on how to report inappropriate content, including posts and profiles. 

Blocking

You can block other users on Instagram or stop people from commenting on your photos and videos. 

Restricting

You can restrict other people on Instagram. This means they won't be able to see when you're online or if you've read their messages. If you restrict someone, their comments on your posts will also only be visible to them, unless you tap 'see comment'. You can approve comments if you'd like other people to see them, or you can delete or ignore them. 

And remember to let your child know that they can always talk to you about worrying things they see online.

If an account is private, then videos or images shared on Instagram can only be seen by followers. Your child’s followers will most likely be made up of friends and people they know from other offline activities. But sometimes kids might let friends of friends or other people they don’t know follow them.

Set some rules with your child about who can follow them on the app and show them how to ignore follow requests from people they don’t know. You could also show them how to remove followers if they already have accepted requests.