
WhatsApp is an instant messaging app which lets you send messages, images and videos in one-to-one and group chats with your contacts. You can choose to share your live location for up to eight hours with one contact or a group.
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WhatsApp is an instant messaging app which lets you send messages, images and videos in one-to-one and group chats with your contacts. You can choose to share your live location for up to eight hours with one contact or a group.
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Sitting down with your child and exploring WhatsApp together is a great way for you to learn more about why they might like to use it.
It also gives you a chance to chat with them about the privacy settings and agree some rules around who they can talk to. You should tell them to come to you if anyone they don’t know tries to send them a message.
You might also want to discuss some of the different features available like ‘Disappearing Messages’ and decide together whether they can use them.
We would recommend reading WhatsApp’s article on Privacy and Settings for more information on how to keep safe using the app.
Sometimes children can feel pressure to always be online and respond to messages straight away. To help with this, you can turn off last seen and read receipts so people can’t see when they’ve read a message. You should also encourage them to mute chats if they’re getting lots of notifications and feel overwhelmed.
Your child might receive upsetting or negative things from other users on WhatsApp. If this happens, they might want to report or block them.
WhatsApp has guidance on how to block other users, as well as general information on staying safe.
Take the time to explore this with your child, discussing when and why you might want to block somebody.
And remember to let your child know that they can always talk to you about anything they see online.
WhatsApp group chats mean your child might be added to conversations with people they don’t know, which could increase the chance they come across upsetting or negative messages. (But remember, they could still see this from people they do know!)
WhatsApp default settings mean that anyone, including people outside your child’s phone contacts, can add them to group chats without their approval. To prevent this, we recommend changing the group chat settings from ‘Everyone’ to ‘My Contacts Except…’ and using the tick icon to select all contacts.
The ‘My Contacts Except…’ option means only your child’s phone contacts, except those you exclude, can add your child to groups. But by selecting all contacts, it means that nobody should be able to add your child to a group chat without first sending them an invitation, which they’ll need to accept before being added to a group chat.
For a step by step guide, WhatsApp has more information on group chat settings.
In the settings, under privacy, you can change who can see your personal info, including your profile photo.
We recommend exploring these features with your child and changing the settings so that only your child’s contacts, or nobody, can see their personal information.
Make sure that their profile photo and status updates only visible to their contacts or nobody at all. This will help to keep their identity private from people they might not know.
We also recommend changing who can see the ‘about’ info (a bit like a status) to either their contacts or nobody. And remind your child not to share details about their location here. If they need to let friends or family know where they are, they can message them separately.
WhatsApp has guidance on how to change your privacy settings.
Help your child think about what they share online and who sees it. Compare it to what they would be happy to share offline.
Use examples that are easy for them to understand: “You shouldn't give your number to somebody you don't know on the street. Is somebody online you don't know any different?”
Listen to their answers. And be positive and encouraging.
Remind them that they shouldn’t share private things, such as:
Explain that you understand the internet is a great place to play, create, learn and connect. But remind them they can talk to you if anything upsets or worries them.
Reassure them that you won’t overreact – you’re just looking out for them.
It’s important to remind your child that they can talk you, another adult they trust, like a teacher, or Childline about anything they see online.
Having open, regular conversations with your child will help you to really understand and explore the online world together. Our tips and advice can help you start these conversations.
Talk about staying safe onlineWe've spoken to over 2,000 parents and kids to find out what they think.
What do children and young people dislike about WhatsApp?
People can get hold of your number and send you bad things. But I like to send pics and have group chats with my friends.
Young person, 12
What do children and young people like about WhatsApp?
I like how I can text my friends and family really easily for free. It also allows me to be part of group chats. I think it is safe as long as you do not give your number out to random people.
Girl, 16
We asked parents about the following areas of WhatsApp
Signing up
It was easy and quick; every step was explained in a way that was very easy to understand.
Mum of an 18 year old
It seems to be very simple and anyone can access it as long as they have access to a mobile.
Mum of 3 and 8 year old boys
Reporting
I found the area to block people after a little bit of searching but could not find anywhere to report undesirable content.
Mum of 6 and 13 year olds
If a message comes from a number outside your contacts, WhatsApp tells you and offers a block option.
Dad of 3 and 8 year old boys
Privacy settings
Most parents thought it was to set your profile, account and location to private.
As long as you know that settings can be changed then it's easy to do.
Mum of a 14 year old girl
Safety and support
If you Google then it's easy to find out. But not via the app directly.
Mum of a 14 year old girl
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